How to Get a Girl to Like You - Win the Heart of Your Dream Girl
Posted: Monday, August 13, 2007
by Michael Lee
http://www.20daypersuasion.com
Do you want to know how to get a girl to like you? You are not the only one wondering about that. Majority of men around the world are wondering how to capture the heart of the girl of their dreams the same as you. Exactly what is that that makes one of the most baffling of God's creatures tick anyway? Here's how to get a girl to like you:
To get people to like you, you only need to be yourself. Fakeness is something no one enjoys. Not being who you really are is like sending out a warning signal. Honesty and integrity is a barometer of trustworthiness. If a girl can't trust you to be yourself, why would she entrust you with her life?
Immerse yourself.
If you've always felt awkward when dealing with the fairer sex, do not fret. It may take some getting used to; but as with any brave exploit, practice makes perfect. Start with the basics.
Observe your own family. Take note of the interactions between family members of opposite sexes. If you're very lucky to have been raised in a family made up mostly of women, then you'd at least have a working knowledge of how to act around girls. But if you've only ever interacted with male creatures your entire life, you'll probably need to adjust to females more.
Try to interact with women more and try to be familiar with their ways. It won't help to keep them at arm's length just because you find them intimidating. Girls aren't immune to bouts of low self-esteem, too. If you're afraid to approach a girl, remind yourself that girls are stumped about how to get guys to like them as well.
Be nice.
"Nice" and "pleasant" mean two different things. Sure, you could be quite enjoyable to be around with, but do you actually go out of your way to be a decent person?
Help an old lady cross the street. Be a role model for kids to look up to. Be kind to animals. Being considerate to others, no matter the age, gender, or species, is sure to make any girl's heart melt.
Of course, don't do it just to show a fake demeanor. If all you're after are the brownie points, your efforts will only backfire painfully.
Clean up your act.
Some females may find the bad boy types rather sexy. That, however, is no excuse for you to avoid taking a bath. A guy can be the most perfect Adonis, but you can bet the girls will dodge him like a dreaded disease if he stinks like a skunk.
Be a friend.
Yes, platonic relationships between people of the opposite sexes do exist. In some cases, pure friendship relationships can even lead to romantic ones. But whether or not you'd like to take it that far, keep in mind that girls weren't put on earth to be chased after then to be captured like prize game.
There is a higher likelihood for her to enjoy your presence if you treat her with respect, listen to her intently, and be her support system when she's not in her best element. Leave her with no doubt about your clear motives and don't let her perceive that you're only after one thing (and we both know no one's ignorant what that is).
Just follow these simple steps on how to get a girl to like you and you'll be able to get the girl of your dreams to like you.
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Loomassage i had the same problem but if you just...
Be funny, be happy round her and tell her that she looks nice then your almost there then start asking her questions but each week make them more personal and she will start answering...?
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